If you suffer from a phobia, whatever this phobia is, the fear of the problem has probably by now disappeared behind the fear of the fear. This means that you are more scared that a crisis would occur than the initial reason why this developed all those years ago. If you are agoraphobic for example, you may feel stuck in a vicious circle. Fear of a potential new crisis in the middle of the shopping centre becomes worse than fear of the situation itself. On top of this, you may experience a kind of shame that you feel this way in the first place! And this may cause a further block to talking about it. It is important to acknowledge the pain first, however unreal the proportions which the problem took over the years. It is perfectly real and painful. I am here to help you step out of the problem and get perspective, turn this problem around, and finally start working on it. As long as the problem is inside, you can't see it. Talking about it is a way to of observing it from a distance without feeling polluted with the constricting discomfort. So which tool should you use to overcome your phobia? Your unconscious mind has resources to help you that you can't even imagine. Your unconscious mind can be my best friend, helping me to help you. Together, I use intuition and skill to determine what tools will work for you, so that you can feel better. Think of me as a mirror in front of you, helping you to reflect your inner reality in order to change the unrealistically scary perception that you have of the situation. As soon as you change your perception of the situation, you allow the situation to change as well. There's a lot of painful things in life that are kept buried deep inside. Too scared to talk about them, too scared to be judged, we can be too scared to lose our credibility in front of friends, parents, or even colleagues. It can take courage to make a decision to talk to someone, to change the situation and finally let go of the pain. Take that first step now; I promise you won't regret it – call me for your appointment on 078 1584 4134.
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What do you do that is different to other therapists, I mean they all claim to listen, and how long will it take , how many sessions can I expect to have to pay for with counseling?
You can work with me on unresolved issues with abuse and how to break the cycle of abuse and co-dependancy
They say love is a little insanity rolled into a warm and fuzzy package, if you need a little help to get back to even keel or just to get a perspective I also do couples counseling as well as one to one.
Do you feel rejected? Want to know why its always you or "your fault" why "its never Good Enough"?
Do you always fight with your family or do you have a family member that is "passive- aggressive" with anger issues?
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